By Lee R. Phillips
I have recently watched a disaster unfold. Many of you won’t be directly affected by this disaster scenario, but you may have family member in the situation where they are in danger, and you could help. So, it’s probably worth a couple of paragraphs in an email to you.
Divorce is ugly! Some couples decide to just separate, and they live their separate lives. They live in different cities. They live with other people. They are divorced by all indications, but rather than go through the legal pain of a divorce they are just estranged. This is a disaster situation.
There are different “degrees” of separation. There is a “we agree we will live apart and still be married.” There is a legal separation, where the spouses agree on terms of a separation and then write up the agreement and then get a court order of separation (called legal separation). And, then there is divorce that dissolves the marriage.
If you know you are going to get divorced, you should file for legal separation during the time you are waiting to get divorced. This stops your legal obligations and liabilities related to your spouse. (more…)